I suspect that somewhere along the line, the marriage date was copied incorrectly. If Wm. was b. 1823, he was fourteen in 1837, & if Lydia was 47 in 1880, she was four in 1837. The FamilySearch database of the 1880 Census has in Cheyenne,
Barton, KS:
GOLDEN, W. N., 57, PA OH OH; wf. Lydia, 47, OH NY NY; ch. b. OH: Ida
CLEVELAND, wid., 22;
Fredrick, 17; Cora, 12; son b. KS,
Vance, 3; grandson Harry
CLEVELAND, 9 mos., KS.
RootsWeb WorldConnect: William
Nyce GOLDEN (7 Jan. 1823 - 19 Aug. 1900) served in Co. H, 139 OH Infantry, m. 7 Nov. 1848? OH, Lydia
DUNHAM, & had
Monroe, b. 22 D 1849
Eugene, b. 17 Mar. 1852
Frances Jane, b. 24 D 1853
Rosa Emma, b. 3 D 1855
Margarita Edith, b. 24 N 1857 [Ida, m. CLEVELAND?]
Fredk. Tucker, b. 1 D 1862
Sam
Smith, b. 16 S 1864
Cora May /
Claudy Maud?, b. 31 D 1867, Dover Twp., Fulton Co., OH; m. 30 D 188_, Puyallup,
Pierce, WA, Geo. B. AKIN, b. 1 Apr. 1856, Byron, Shiaw., MI.
Guy
Vance (12 Aug. 1876,
Barton Co., KS - 29 N 1917, Eatonville,
Pierce, WA) m. 29 S 1897,
Pierce, WA, Dianna Frances MILLISON, b. 22 May 1881,
Cumb. Co., MD.
In 1880, Beaver,
Barton Co., KS: James
DUNHAM, 32; wf. Sarah J., 28; son Lewis, 7, & dau. Rachel, 5; all b. OH.
The
GOLDEN side is traced far back on WorldConnect. William was of Margaretta,
Erie Co., OH, 1850, only heads of household on WorldConnect index.
USGenWeb > OH > Erie County: Census of 1850, #56. Silas F. DUNHAM, b. ca. 1810; Andromeda, b. ca. 1812; ch. Edwin R., Eldron, Ellen, & Elnora. With such a rare name for Ohio, that must be Andromeda
BENTLEY, who m. 29 D 1836,
Huron Co., OH,
Silas F. DUNHAM, s/o Aaron
DUNHAM, b. ca. 1785, VT, & Mehetable WOOD. Aaron also had John M. DUNHAM, b. ca. 1822,
Marcellus, NY, m. Deb. A. McCloud Van WINKLE. In Roxand, Eaton, MI, 1880:
DUNHAM, John M., 58, NY
MA MA; wf. Debora, 52, MI NY NY; ch. b. MI; Carlie 22;
Silas E., 17; Geo. B., 13; Rosa B., 10. [Who knows? Aaron was supposedly b. VT, but John's parents b. MA?] Silas F. DUNHAM supposedly died in 1878, MI [RootsWeb].
A quick search of
Huron Co., OH, showed Martin
KELLOGG of Bronson Twp.,
Huron Co., OH, s/o Lucy
DUNHAM & Martin
KELLOGG. Martin, Jr., b. 1786, Bethel, VT, supposedly died in 1892, aged nearly 106. RootsWeb Family Trees has more. Lucy was of Thomas of Micajah, back to John of Plymouth Colony, if you believe the chart, which doesn't have the right birth place for the immigrant.
The children of
Silas F. DUNHAM are listed online as b.
Erie Co., NY, but I think it should be
Erie Co., OH. Have you checked the 1850 Census, Florence Twp.,
Erie Co., OH?